sharing dreams

Dreaming u/[deleted] 2022-04-14 03:42 UTC 1 points recovered

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sharing dreams
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Often I have a dream involving my wife. When I wake up, my wife will describe her dream and it's no doubt to me that we were experiencing the same dream, just from our own perspective. Does this ever happen to you? I don't dark room practice yet. Not there yet.
On another note, when I wake up in a dream, or realize I'm dreaming, I will, without a doubt, steer the dream into a sexual fantasy. How do I stop wasting my energy on this? When gifted the power to create my reality, i immediately self indulge.
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u/the-mad-prophet 2 points 2022-04-14 04:31

> sexual fantasy

That's a really common issue for nearly all dreamers. There is a physical component. During the period of time where we have the majority of our REM cycles, our bodies also produce significantly different levels of hormones. This makes a huge contribution to how aroused we are.

One of the best ways is to set the intention while awake that 'when I'm horny, I'll acknowledge it and tell myself I will satisfy it AFTER I have done what I wanted to do in the dream'. Delaying it seems to work. As your control over your dreaming attention builds it becomes easier to handle.

Or just will yourself to have an orgasm immediately, then do a dream re-entry and continue.

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