Over the past 2 months as I made my way through "The Fire From Within", I came to the realization that my husband is my very own magnificent petty tyrant.
This has been the most incredible discovery of my life and my relationship with him is the best it's ever been. We just mess with each other all day long and haven't had a single argument. (I do have the best story of me using controlled folly with him and it's hilarious. I will post about it another time)
I have been watching myself and figuring out things I do. The improvement in myself has been healing and this is my life work now. But can I do that to him? I want to watch him like he's my prey. Is that a waste of my energy or is it the best use of my time since he is my life partner petty tyrant?
What's hilarious to me is that I now call him my pinches tiranitos chiquititos. He always laughs and It makes me giggle and puts me in the right frame of mind to engage him with ease. We spend so much time together and so I just do all my tensegrity moves in front of him. We hang out and talk and I will do my yoga, Tai chi and my passes all integrated in the moves.
Here's how his life has changed by watching me move and grow in my practice:
-As a high-functioning alcoholic, he has not touched a drop in 6 weeks.
-He is waking up at 4am to go walking. He has worked his way up to 8 miles a day.
-his diet changed to fasting and clean food.
-He has lost 12 pounds.
-He is being a completely present father for his children.
-His business affairs are running as they should, for his attention to the details is finely tuned in.
What I have realized in myself is that I am not asking or demanding ANYTHING from him. It's been like this energetic dance around each other and he's been able to get his stuff done with peak efficiency. With him not feeling any expectations from me, he has been free get his stuff done. I'm not taking anything away from his energy, but adding to in the right moments.
So can I stalk him?
Or am I already doing it?
Whats the benefit of stalking someone else?
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🤔 this mixing of yoga, taichi, and the tensegrity magical passes is not something that i would recommend. There is specific intent, and effect, built into each magical pass. So i am at a loss as to why you would be mixing that up?
Next, what is your intent behind this stalking maneuver?
Do you wish to catch your spouse cheating on you? As if he were seeking ‘typ’?
Yeah, OP is obviously a witch, wich means that has some magic in her daily stuff, but she is not going anywhere with it.
All that power into an obsession over husband.
And confusing it with Castaneda's sorcery.
It's not good to forget, we follow a specific path.
Otherwise we'd all end up like people in the Enlightenment subreddit.
Where everybody convince themselves there is no need to work at all.
Or that the effects of drugs are the ultimate result.
Is there any way to NOT be lazy and be disciplined instead so I don't end up like that guy 😔😭😭
Hard work
If you be slippin just keep going and push harder
Don't let the slip stop you
Laziness is a blue zone effect.
I mean, the exaggerated kind of sloth. That makes you want to see your phone or TV and don't do anything else.
Once you see some results and remember that magic is exciting and revitalizing, you stop avoiding the work. And it goes.
But you need to get up and start. So you find something real to follow as soon as possible.
Then it's not so bad. It's like being irritated for having to go to the mall, but once you get out you realize that the day is beautiful, it's breezy and you can enjoy the walk.
Although discipline itself is not useful if we don't follow the path to real magic.
Following the example, it would be like going out everyday but never making it to the mall.
At some point you're going to get tired of going out and never getting anywhere.
I forget at times that literally everything is a assemblage point shift
How do I learn what blue zone is?
Read around at other posts to get a better idea
J curve posts would be a good place to start
It's the habitual state of our internal dialog and our habitual assemblage point position
It's where everyone around you experiences reality, including you
Silence causes it to become free from this positioning and enables it to move elsewhere
Although that might be to simplistic
By practice of silence, the spirit notices your hard work, and since you no longer are having thoughts and images roaming around your dome, it can show you other things instead of what you've learned only
You realize the blue zone is just a position(that really sucks) after your assemblage point shifts far enough
It's nice to have studious people around!
So my reason for the yoga and Tai chi is specifically to help my body feel good. I have a very physically active job and it helps to release and flow. It's to help my body to stretch and relax.
When I'm doing the passes though it's with the proper intent. I'll get into a flow with my body movement and when I'm tight, focused and in the right frame of mind I just shift into them. Sometimes when we're dancing, different tensegrity moves will come out because they feel good to do. We spend so much time with each other, it's actually very difficult for me to get into dark room. So I do my passes whenever I can. He'll usually be on the phone and I'll be on my floor mat stretching or getting into my quiet zone.
That is not my intent with my spouse. We have zero trust issues and are very content. I'm not trying to catch him in anything. What I'm trying to do is achieve the best possible outcome with each engagement I have with him. I already feel like we have grown closer and more satisfied in our relationship with my stalking of myself. My stalking of him is to better understand him and his ways, not to judge but help me to interact better.
It's just that is weird that you call him a " petty tyrant" and after you display his positive change. It shows there must be something that makes him a " petty tyrant".
As the others said, changing yourself has an impact on others.
You can have exactly the same effects doing psychotherapy and yoga and tai chi, for example.
If your intention with the practices is your wellbeing and the flourishing of your relationship you can have that , the way you do.
Just to make it clear this is not sorccery.
That's fine, as long as you don't do them together (cobbled together into a amalgam during a single session), and keep the intent purely for physical conditioning; meaning disregard any philosophical or esoteric definitions that they are packaged with.
Treat them as purely secular movements for.body conditioning. With the Yoga, I would also go by the westernized names for the poses, which should assist in this.
It’s common that people around us change when we do. But that isn’t something we try to do. We stalk ourselves, not other people.
You should browse our Tensegrity section (currently being reformatted and revised), and look for some passes to learn that are done with a partner like these:
The Abstract Affection Long Form
The Winged Being - (video link to a closely related pass is at the top of this linked page)
Controlled Folly - only a vague description, sort of a couples dance (done with a partner)
Joining Forces for an Instant - considered part of the Masculinity series in the book Magical Passes (which has illustrations)
The Male and Female Winged Fighter - Long Form, M/F partnered
Confrontation and Cooperation Pass Done With A Partner
Recapitulation Partners Long Form
Eventually we'll have video demonstrations, but until then you'll have to wing it (certainly doable if you're already familiar with the better documented and filmed passes)!
you are already doing it. to some degree
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But is it bad for me to do it. Maybe those are the wrong words. Is it a waste of my energy?